Dan smells it too BBj... that's why he is circling his wagons. i agree with Kalni. Watch yourself!
I hope you can get your weekends switched but I would try now before Dan figures out that you are seeing someone (sort of).
THIS^^^
That's what I am trying to do. I have sent him two emails, I don't really want to call him to talk about it. After the first one he texted me that we could talk weekends when he got back from his trip...then he never brought it up.
I sent a detailed but brief email stating I needed to switch for February bc of speech contests...and said I would like to switch permanently. Switching means I get them Christmas and he gets them New Years and Spring Break which lines up with our 2011 schedule, so it would mean less rearranging down the line, which should appeal to his logical side.
We got a call at 6:45 from the superintendent saying 2 hr late start due to a patch of freezing rain that moved in unexpecedly. This is an automated call that goes out to all parents and it gave the reason clearly. Ten minutes later Dan calls me and asks me if I knew there was a late start (duh I am a teacher and he knows I am in the system) and then he asks me why we are having a late start. I said, "Did you listen to the message?" He said Yeah and I said, "Then you know it's because of freezing rain" and he says, "Yeah it is slippery outside" Seriously? So no need to call me!
I am more watching with amusement than getting sucked back in. For all I know he is being nice bc he and Steffie are getting married on Valentine's Day and he wants to butter me up. No more assuming his motives...
