Welcome to this board. Sorry that you find yourself here.
Do you believe your own MLC triggered your wife's?
Now sir, you opened the floodgates. You may get asked a lot of questions about your journey as well.
We welcome input from the former MLC perspective as it helps the LBS to understand what goes through the MLC mind, so hope you don't mind that. We all can be of great support to one another.
Did you and W remain together during your MLC? Did you have an affair? Was divorce ever discussed?
Has your W mentioned wanting a D?
I guess a major thought would be as far as going out and dating goes is that you know that you came through your MLC and I assume your W waited for you, right? What were the years like for your marriage since you finished your journey and your W started her's? Is it worth waiting for your W to finish her's?
