If W and I get back together we will do the same thing and I will post it on YouTube so all you guys can see it and have a toast FOBD you get to drink koolaide! Don't want you punching the computer, then you won't be able to post!
2step, you crack me up, dude. I like a person that can throw around some dry humor. Seriously, keep the laughter coming. It really helps!
Just wanted to let everyone know that I have my first coaching session tonight. I figured every "ying" needs a "yang." Since my local C is pushing me to file for D, I figured that my life could use some balance. So, I signed up for a couple of coaching sessions so that I can have a professional counter-opinion to that of my C. I am very excited. I hope I can find some things here to help with my journey. If anything, I might find some piece of mind...
I hope all my BITS are having a good day!!!
BITS
FOBD
Me: 39 W: 36 T: 15 yrs M: 9 yrs S: 09/10
So you can get on with your search, baby And I can get on with mine And maybe someday we will find, That it wasn't really wasted time...
I agree w/2step...if any of us make it back....we gotta post it on YouTube 4 sure!!!
Ps...FOBD koolaide or sparkling h20 w/ a twist of lime! LOL
Me: 40 H: 39 M: 17 yrs - Together 18 1/2yrs No kids Seperated: May 18, 2006 EA/Poss PA with OW for 6 months prior to leaving. 2nd Bomb dropped: Dec. 23, 2010
2Step - THAT is some heavy s###. What song is that from?
It is shakespear I believe
Actually it is a poem by William Earnest Henley called "Invictus". I am familiar with it from the movie with the same name.
Spellfire aka Mike
"Women do not like controlling men. They respect and are attracted to men who control themselves. They ultimately are repelled by men who allow themselves to be controlled." -S&A
Who is your coach?? I am really excited for you. Just to warn you after my first session I felt like total crap. Not because of the coach but because she was able to explain how my W was feeling and I started to realize what a total jackA$$ I was. But now we are working on correcting the issues. I am excited for you
Zen and 2step, Glad you enjoyed it. It makes me feel good to know that I helped someone today. I advise trying this yourself. Go out there and find a WAS and grill them. I am sure you probably know at least one somewhere. Pick their brains. It will help you to better prepare for interactions with your WAS. I feel soooooo much more prepared after speaking with him. And this is the most important part. After speaking with him, I honest feel like I can better understand my W now. Amazing what one dinner conversation can do!!
Zen, to answer your question, no. They ended up reconciling before the D was final. He told me that after he went home, they had a ceremonial burning of the D papers together to symbolize their new dedication to each other. Tonight I will go to bed and hope that you too get to have a nice funeral pyre for your papers!!!
BITS!
FOBD
FOBD - If I ever have that burning ceremony, it will be after the D is final. My time is drawing near. But keep that hope alive for me please!
BITS
M: 48, H: 42 Kids: 0 T: 20 yrs M: 16 yrs. (H's 1st, my 2nd) WAS/MLC: 12/7/09-I'm not the wife HE deserved Came home per L: 12/26/09, Left again: 2/6/10 Served: 10/21/10, D FINAL: 6/15/11
2step, you crack me up, dude. I like a person that can throw around some dry humor. Seriously, keep the laughter coming. It really helps!
Just wanted to let everyone know that I have my first coaching session tonight. I figured every "ying" needs a "yang." Since my local C is pushing me to file for D, I figured that my life could use some balance. So, I signed up for a couple of coaching sessions so that I can have a professional counter-opinion to that of my C. I am very excited. I hope I can find some things here to help with my journey. If anything, I might find some piece of mind...
I hope all my BITS are having a good day!!!
BITS
FOBD
Good luck with your DB Coach tonite. Let us know how you make out!
BITS
M: 48, H: 42 Kids: 0 T: 20 yrs M: 16 yrs. (H's 1st, my 2nd) WAS/MLC: 12/7/09-I'm not the wife HE deserved Came home per L: 12/26/09, Left again: 2/6/10 Served: 10/21/10, D FINAL: 6/15/11
