Thanks for your words,1000 ships! I am hanging in there and doing what needs to be done. I am letting my H work through what he has to. Yes, it does get frustrating, but I am managing to keep my mouth shut after my outburst the other day.
One thing I know is that I will not let him run all over me, and so far that hasn't happened. Time is what he needs and I love him and hope he works through this.