While you are correct that nothing can take away from Seekings (or any of our) memories, right now, Seeking NEEDS to put that in a box, on a shelf, and view this as a business deal.
She has had a bit of time to grieve, and there will be more time for that, but when decision making and speaking to lawyers is involved, there can not be emotions driving her.
Emotions drive our MLCer's. What it brings, is destruction, at every turn.
SA,
Sweetie, you also need to know...
This is the end if YOU decide to move ON after this.
There is nothing wrong with living, making no decision either way, and just seeing what comes your way. You may be amazed. I know I was
Life and God don't always bring you what you are expecting.
As far as them... they do things to try to get to us. They accuse of things and look for our reactions. When they can't seem to bring a reaction in one way anymore, often they switch to different tactics.
When my H couldn't get a rise out of me by telling me how horrible I was, then it was D papers. When that didn't bring fear, it was our son. And then the OW. No more reactions from me. Why? Because my changes are real and for me, not for him.
After that, after they realize that nothing works anymore, that you aren't the person that they think they saw (unless the continue to rewrite and change history, which some do), they have no choice but to look inside. And they will run from that. Believe me they will run. Your H, is still running SA.
Remember that fair, goes both ways. And the time comes when we have to stop "protecting" them from the consequences of their choices.
Cat
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox
