This logic you have wether you don't know if you would even want your W back is normal. If you really grow for YOU and make changes for YOU does it really matter? In the end will YOU not be a better person and happier with yourself. At that point you can decide what you want to do. If you make the changes hoping she notices then are you really changing? This is something I struggle with because we all start to make changes hoping our W will notice and come back to us but then we really didn't change did we?
Think about what YOU need to do for yourself and if she notices great if she doesn't then you are a new and improved version of yourself. Nothing wrong with that. Remember believe 50% of what you hear.
