What you are doing has earned my respect a thousand fold!!! To stand when everyone would understand if you gave up is real courage. That is true love. The love that sees the wrong and yet forgives. The love that fights even when there seems that there is nothing worth fighting for. That is true love. When I visited my W in OK I told her I would love for us to work things out but I would not do it at the price of losing myself. I stand by that comment today. I would give anything in the world to save my marriage but I will not compromise my morals and principles for it because after the dust settles I still have to look at myself in the mirror and I have to like what I see.
However we each have that threshold we will not cross you have to find yours. Have you read the 5 Love languages? If not I suggest you do. I started it last night and it was a real eye opener, I think that book with MWD advice is a recipe for success. Be patient and stay focused. For every mistake you make be grateful, that mistake you'll never make again.
