My apologies, I am new to this forum stuff and did not see that your response was to InAPickle, now I see that at the top of the post so my comment to you was inappropriate, sorry
Actually though, now that I think about it - this is a lesson for me. One of the things that I have to work on is not making assumptions, thinking that I am right on an issue, and then just either firing off some comment or taking an action on something because of an assumption I have made as to what is the truth. I have done that far too often in the past and it has resulted in some discomforting circumstances for sure. I need to learn from this - rather than just making a statement based upon what I "assume to be correct" - if I am questioning something or am in doubt, that is an opportunity to ask for more clarification or ask more questions before I form an opinion or make a statement.
This reminds me of a quote I heard in church yesterday.
"Experience is what you get from doing things. Wisdom is what you get from doing things badly"
Time for some wisdom here - good way to start the week.
Mr. Firstlove
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