Everything is relevant, yesterday I cried for almost an hour feeling completely hopeless. Today I wake up and I'm feeling hopeful again. The emotions run wild from one extreme to the other, I for one have never experienced these range of emotions before. He is still arguing with you, I mention this because while my W was still yelling I had a chance to save my marriage when she stopped caring and went silent that's when I was in trouble and I didn't even know it.
Hang strong and keep concentrating on your 180 and being cool under pressure. I don't know if you saw my post to someone else but it warrants repeating
I briefly spoke to a MC that I couldn't afford but he did leave me with this. "you must remember that you are now doing relationship judo. If she argues with you agree. If she tells you how bad you are...agree. When she mentions all the times you came short agree. As you agree with her she will lose interest in arguing with you because you are giving her nothing to argue about. You will be surprised how quickly they come to your aide and start defending you. The more you push on the door of resistance the tighter it becomes bit take the pressure off and watch what happens. Since you have relieved the pressure she has no reason to really have a tight grip"
I tried one time my W and I spoke and it worked.
I'm on my phone again so if I've misspelled something it's my phones fault not mine
