Relationship Discussions - When is ok?

[Scared2Def]

Sandi2,

In the midst of me hearing that she wants to still leave in June, I finally used your advise and told her (in similar words).

That I want this last bit of time to be memorable and got out in a blaze of glory. I said there is no reason we cannot just have great times our last 4 months together and make the best. I told her I want the kids to see us all having fun together so they know the reason for us seperating is not their fault. I mentioned to my wife that we should plan a nice family vacation over kids spring break, I brought up that the kids have been mentioning Disneyland Paris.

Well this morning on her facebook, she sent a message to her friend asking what hotel they stayed at when they went there last year. That means she liked the idea right?

So now I NEED to continue with the no relationship talk and move forward again. My mistake yesterday was she asked me what was wrong and I just told the truth. I still feel obligated to tell her everything on my mind. I suppose that is my last hurdle in this Divorce Busting. I now will not make that mistake again. I scheduled an appt to see a lawyer next Friday was the earliest appointment. I want to start working on seperation agreement because in the conversation last night she said divorce is not yet on her mind.

So I fugured I need to get the ball rolling to cover my arse. I really appreicate your advice and please keep it coming.