Till death do us part... or she leaves...

[dixiegal]

fobd,

Wow! I like the post from the WAS...It confirms everything we struggle with....

I have one girlfriend who was a WAS. However, she never left the home but, did have an PA. After 3mos and after she ended it, she told her H she was leaving. They started MC. It all came out in C. So, she never left but, she was real awful to her H for 3 years....Today, they are doing very well. Till this day she goes once a month herself to see a C. She calls it a check up.

She said, that was real ugly and said hurtful things to her H. Because, she lashed out at him and blamed him for everything. This was so she didnt have to face her own crap. She said, she also made him out to be the bad guy in everything. It was only through C that she started to deal with the real issues.

She told me the same to just stay dark...cause, H doesnt want to hear anything I say right now. That like her he has made himself believe that this is the correct thing to do and he will be happier...

Im glad your doing better!