Well last night went ok, wife was tired and it showed, we stayed up and watched some tv while son and his friends went XBOX Kinect crazy!
Not much talking, just the 2 of us on the couch relaxing. I went to bed a bit before her as the boys came down and they wanted watch Transformers. Wife stayed up and I crashed.
Kids are out of school today so wife was still asleep when I left.
But my goal this weekend willbe to relax and enjoy the family. Maybe go downtown tomorrow and do some window shopping with them and do lunch. I am craving a nice schnitzel!
Me - 39 yrs old Wife - 39 yrs old Married - 18 years Together - almost 21 year Kids - son age 13/ daughter age 10 Bomb Dropped in May 2010 Seperating - June 2011, after school lets out
Well, things are ok, I came home a little early today. Cut my hair and chilled. May be going out tonight with friends, shoot some pool. We shall see.
Me - 39 yrs old Wife - 39 yrs old Married - 18 years Together - almost 21 year Kids - son age 13/ daughter age 10 Bomb Dropped in May 2010 Seperating - June 2011, after school lets out
Well I really messed up this weekend. I totally stepped backwards. Not sure why or what caused it. I became to compfortable around her. She let me touch her while laying on the couch and of course that went straight to my head. Last night we talked for quite some time and it basically ended with me suggesting we start sleeping in seperate beds. We had still been in the same bed even through all this crap. So last night she slept on the couch. This morning was a normal morning, pleasentry's and all.
Me - 39 yrs old Wife - 39 yrs old Married - 18 years Together - almost 21 year Kids - son age 13/ daughter age 10 Bomb Dropped in May 2010 Seperating - June 2011, after school lets out
I screwed up and did this last night. I am such an idiot
Me - 39 yrs old Wife - 39 yrs old Married - 18 years Together - almost 21 year Kids - son age 13/ daughter age 10 Bomb Dropped in May 2010 Seperating - June 2011, after school lets out
So I guess we need to start working on seperation agreements.
Me - 39 yrs old Wife - 39 yrs old Married - 18 years Together - almost 21 year Kids - son age 13/ daughter age 10 Bomb Dropped in May 2010 Seperating - June 2011, after school lets out
Last night we talked for quite some time and it basically ended with me suggesting we start sleeping in seperate beds. We had still been in the same bed even through all this crap. So last night she slept on the couch.
Why did you do that?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
Why did I suggest seperate beds? Felt like she wanted it.
Me - 39 yrs old Wife - 39 yrs old Married - 18 years Together - almost 21 year Kids - son age 13/ daughter age 10 Bomb Dropped in May 2010 Seperating - June 2011, after school lets out
Get your bearings, I don't think this is a deal killer. You guys are still on talking to terms. Fall back regroup and attempt to talk to her in a calm positive way. We all make mistakes it is a learning process and we will stumble along the way.
