Slightly encouraging to me, however the one really large detractor to me and my sitch is the fact that this is the 3rd time we have come to this dance. His comments about how much stronger the M will be after, well we didn't 2x so she has that much more doubt about things. I found DB and DR the last 2x, but just didn't follow through.
I will re-read your conversation a few more times. Maybe reading it over and over will help some of it resonate more in my head. Just can't shake the negative, though.
B.I.T.S.
M42 W38 D5D7 M8 Living as 'roomates' since 9-12-10 Moved out 1-7-11 FIL threatened to kill me 1-20-11