Wife of 6-years Wants a Divorce - pt 2

[Denver_2010]

Your wife wants a hero, and it is good and kind and hero-like to help her.


"I read in another thread here that by offering services and help continue to make me less attractive to my spouse."
That was just bad advice, especially for your situation.

What you don't want to do is pursue her or come off as needy. I think she is telling you she wants to feel you are protective over her and taking care of her. It might be worth a try.


To cut your wife completely off is the after the last resort technique, but very often ends marriages...that's why it's the very last ditch effort. Don't do it now. What you need is a 180 that let's your wife know you are the man she wants.

Dbmod just gave you absolutely GREAT advice Alamo.

BITS!
Denver