LOVE the analogy FOBD. I've looked at it that way many times over the past couple of months.
2Step - You are worried about the logistics of reconciliation with your W, but I think that you may be too caught up on that. You have a history of love with your W. Heck, I can see that she was IN LOVE with you just this past July when she wrote what she did in your Bday card! That love is still there... you can tell from your recent conversations with her. It is just a little buried. When it is uncovered, she will go to ends of the earth to be with you. I really think that. And, I have a feeling that you'd do the same for her.
BITS! Denver
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce