Well, today was interesting. I feel like a switch tripped in my head. Dopamine has reentered my neural pathways. I have things to look forward to next week. Apartment hunting. 2 get to know you social interactions with members of the opposite sex. 2 job interviews.
Now, I don't know the details of your sitch, Lost, but I really can't imagine a better situation for getting over things than mine. At this point, I don't know that there's anything my STBX could do that would make me take her back, short of finding out she has a tumor that made her act this way. I've completely "dropped the rope" I will not let her actions control my emotions. I haven't had any interaction with her since Thursday, and I don't plan to. I will let my L handle it from here out.