Like you, I also heard a voice when I first met my H. The voice said " This person will be important in your life" .... and I thought it was for my career, cause we r in the same field! But no wonder.... against all odds he became my H.
Thats why when I pray, I always tell God that I know He gave me H, and I ask that he let me keep him, and our M, and if I did not take care of my M well....I promise to take care of it and am proceeding to do so.
I think our M's were blessed by God and this is a test, or maybe He needs to teach either us or our H's something..... and we all know that he does work in mysterious ways. Lets just pray for ourselves, each other, and each others H's.
Take care!
Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18 Bomb: 6/26/10 EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ??? 11/5/11 Retrouvaille Finally piecing.... Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go
