Zen and 2step,
Glad you enjoyed it. It makes me feel good to know that I helped someone today. I advise trying this yourself. Go out there and find a WAS and grill them. I am sure you probably know at least one somewhere. Pick their brains. It will help you to better prepare for interactions with your WAS. I feel soooooo much more prepared after speaking with him. And this is the most important part. After speaking with him, I honest feel like I can better understand my W now. Amazing what one dinner conversation can do!!

Zen, to answer your question, no. They ended up reconciling before the D was final. He told me that after he went home, they had a ceremonial burning of the D papers together to symbolize their new dedication to each other. Tonight I will go to bed and hope that you too get to have a nice funeral pyre for your papers!!!

BITS!

FOBD

Me: 39
W: 36
T: 15 yrs
M: 9 yrs
S: 09/10

So you can get on with your search, baby
And I can get on with mine
And maybe someday we will find,
That it wasn't really wasted time...