iwllbd1, There you go, buddy. Your first positive signs. Feels good, doesn't it? Don't take the "bait" to fight with them. They want to fight so bad so that they can feel good about themselves. You have just executed your first successful DB move. Nice job, my man. You should be proud. Now, keep it up. She thinks she knows all about you and what makes you tick. It is time to pull a "switch-a-roo" on her. Make her start to wonder who you really are and what is going on. Remember, women are attracted to intrigue.
As for her "I am pissed at you then I am not" mood swings, that is the standard operating procedure of a WAS. My wife did it to me numerous times. When things wouldn't go her way, BOOM, she would explode. When I would calmly point out to her that I was trying my best, she would then relent and suddenly become friendly. That is just what they do. So accept it and don't let it bother you. You are the better person here.
Hang in there!!
BITS never walk alone!
FOBD
Me: 39 W: 36 T: 15 yrs M: 9 yrs S: 09/10
So you can get on with your search, baby And I can get on with mine And maybe someday we will find, That it wasn't really wasted time...
