It's a tough time but you will get thru it. All your friends in this forum are here to help you. Divorce Remedy is a book by Michele. It was written after DB and it's been a God send. Pretty much the same content just more info on MLC, Infidelity etc. VERY insightful.
You can't ask you wife to read DB or DR nor can you ask her to come this forum. She will resist BIG time. You are pursuing. HUGE do not do. Try a 180, doing something different to engage her in a diff reaction. Remember that if what you were doing before isn't working, it's never going to work. Focus on getting stronger, become the greener grass and give her space. Space in not your enemy; it can be your saviour. You will be in in for bumpy ride. This whole thing will play on your emotions 24/7.
Don't listen to your family. It's so easy for everyone to tell you to just walk away. Tell them you will move on but not give up. Your not a quitter.
Praying for you with peace and hugs - ZG
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M: 48, H: 42 Kids: 0 T: 20 yrs M: 16 yrs. (H's 1st, my 2nd) WAS/MLC: 12/7/09-I'm not the wife HE deserved Came home per L: 12/26/09, Left again: 2/6/10 Served: 10/21/10, D FINAL: 6/15/11
