You are right. 2.5 yrs are not a lot compared to the 4+yrs my W had to deal with my funk after I returned from IRQ.
And it's only been a month since I now live in the same state as W does...
Am I ready to deal with the situation regardless of how the M ends? not sure. half of me says I am OK no matter what, the other half says don't engage W with R issues...
Joel
Me:44 WAW:43 Children S13,S11,S7 Married 17 yrs W left JUN 08 W filed JAN 09 D proceedings dismissed AUG 09 W refiles 1 MAR 11