Sorry to see that you are here but you have come to a great place for help! Weekends are kinda slow around here as everyone is out galing!
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I've repeatedly told you the same thing,
Time for a 180...she is trying to tell you something and does not feel that you are listening.
Her email to you sounds like it was written in anger! She does not want to talk to you right now so it is a good time to go dark with your W...no calling, texting or emails! Let her contact you. When she does, let her do the talking...validate what she is saying... "I understand" "I am sorry you feel that way" are good phrases to use.
Do you agree with some of the things she said? If so, then those are the things you want to work on! Don't talk to the kids about your situation...they will feel torn and put them in an awkward position!
It is not too late...give her some time to cool off, give her space and work on you right now!
More people will be along to help...hang in there!
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