I agree that you alone have to deal with the trust about the EA. No doubt you know that if you don't get past that, the M is not worth much anyway.
When you went to the C, how much did you hit on the other issues in your marriage or did the trust thing get in the way of anything else?
Not sure what else to say. But I do see you walking down the road of dissatisfaction. Maybe the real question is whether or not you are going to stop complaining about him and accept what it is he has to offer. The book I suggested addresses that issue.
