Hi! I have 5 free sessions with a therapist through my work and I went to my first today to discuss "relationships." She would agree that there are MANY men on the sites who are not looking for what we are. She didn't say too much positive about the sites and believes I will do better out and about living my life (which is what I've been doing)!
She also said the new "in thing" is for younger guys to date older women. I get guys from 30-38 looking and then from about 52-60! I agree, kml...nothing in between. Can't quite figure it out yet. EHarmony is free until Feb. 28 (basic stuff only), but I filled out the profile and we'll see.
I had my profile hidden for the past couple of weeks to take a break and then I posted it again today. Another thing...why do guys from far away (other states) view my profile? What's that about??
Me 55 H 49 Married 21 years No kids bomb 5/09 filed 7/09 divorced and moving forward 5/10