Are you going to confront him about leaving your son? I think that is a serious problem that you need to deal with. I COMPLETELY understand you getting upset about that. My only advice is keep that conversation SEPARATE from the R discussion. I think that requires two different conversations.
It's obvious that you are not ready to talk about the R yet. As Hope rightfully said, no one can make you either. You told me before that this will be all done on your time. Make sure you stick with that. It's all about you now, Wanda. If you are not seeing what you need to see, then don't let anyone push you.
(((Hugs))) I know you are in pain and I'm so sorry. I am praying for you...
