Hugs to you, Wanda. Just because he wants to have an R talk right now doesn't mean he gets what he wants automatically. If you feel it would do more harm than good, make him wait a week or 2. If he really wants to come home, then he needs to respect the fact that you need a bit of time. Don't say that of course. You can just say it's a busy week, you have a lot going on.
Great advice Hope!
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M: 48, H: 42 Kids: 0 T: 20 yrs M: 16 yrs. (H's 1st, my 2nd) WAS/MLC: 12/7/09-I'm not the wife HE deserved Came home per L: 12/26/09, Left again: 2/6/10 Served: 10/21/10, D FINAL: 6/15/11