Let's not be pissy. A direct answer would be nice. I have seen people do exactly what you are doing, ie nothing. It doesn't work. All I have been trying to tell you is that you need to change the dance. Did I say anything about tossing you H out on his ass...I don't think so. I wouldn't be on a board called DB if I didn't think marriages are worth saving. I am trying to engage you in a discussion, but you don't really want to discuss. Remember the basic tenet of DB is that is something isn't working, do something different.
LL, I know I can be provocative. But it comes because I tend to be very direct. I want you to be happy and quite frankly, I would want you to be happy in your marriage and family. At this point you aren't and you afraid to change the situation.
Shawshank Redemption. What a great flick. Tim Robbins told Morgan Freeman in the prison yard, "You have to get busy living or get busy dying".
