Hmm....so remember that thing where when we first started here we would make goal lists of things we wanted from our then-spouses?
I wanted Dan to call me to talk to me and not the kids.
I wanted him to initiate contact instead of me.
I wanted him to invite me on outings w/the kids instead of just accepting when I invited him.
So, this past week he has hit the trifecta...
I am supposed to hand the kids off to him on my weekends, after church. Then he gets them Sunday afternoon and overnight. Sometimes I text asking when he wants them bc sometimes it is right at 11:40 when church lets out and other times he might be 'busy' on the farm or wherever and say 3 or 4. Two weeks ago he was out of town and didn't get back till 7...
So anyway i didn't text him bc I didn't really care today, I have no plans except laundry. So he texted me instead (I figured I would have to call sometime after church) and asked if I wanted to go get lunch after church.i said fine kids and I were planning on going to Pizza Hut. So he met us there and he paid.
Sad thing is when I told kids we were meeting daddy they both whined and said, "NO!" They just wanted lunch with me. I asked what was the deal bc they always want us to do stuff together, and we don't. So they said it's bc Daddy is such a grump and they would rather be with me. Ouch...
