Hugs to you, Wanda. Just because he wants to have an R talk right now doesn't mean he gets what he wants automatically. If you feel it would do more harm than good, make him wait a week or 2. If he really wants to come home, then he needs to respect the fact that you need a bit of time. Don't say that of course. You can just say it's a busy week, you have a lot going on.
Me - 38, 2nd M, no living children, 1 forever 6 yr old boy H - 44, 3rd M, twins 16
Dating 4/07 M 10/08 Bomb #1 12/10 Bomb #2 1/11 Bomb #3 12/11
