H just texted me b/c he wants to go and have R talk. I am not sure if I can do this yet. Right now is not a good time b/c I am angry about the above post. I think I would just snap on him.

And I do know that there are lots of you guys on here that would love to hear your WAS want the R talk, but this has been going on for years. Him leaving and then wanting to come home....over and over again. Sometimes he wants to come home because he wants things...like the computer or tools or sex or whatever it might be. Then when he gets it he goes right back to his selfish detached a$$ again.

I need some real feelings and a real commitment from him. I do not know if he is capable of doing that. It is so very frustrating .

Me:35, 2 kids from PR
H: 37, 2 kids with me
T: 15 years
M: 8 years in Feb.
Second walk out: 14-01-2011
H had PA: 2007