My husband left on January 17th said he needed his space. This is just a separation to fix our issues. He left me a note the day he left that said :"I love you my one and only see you soon."
Well he never called me that night like he said he would. I finally got a text from him 2 days later saying "good morning honey did you move" of course that hurt me deeply. The text I have gotten since are short and mostly about money. He has asked how I am but it just feels strange for our contact to be thru texts all the time. I broke down and called him last night but he didnt answer so I left a message. This morning I got a text saying " I got your message thank you. I sent you two text messages but you didnt reply. Are you okay". How do I or do I even bother replying to that text ? We havent seen each other in 13 days-yes I am counting because I miss him very much- I sound pathetic. Spend so much time looking at midlife crisis and divorce busting info. Just trying to find a way to save my marriage. I am in therapy and on zoloft and xanax for stress. These things dont seem to help the pain and tears during so many sleepless nights.