I have decided to treat her like my best friend no matter how she treats me, and we will just see what happens.
I am not over there putting myself into her life, I have in fact "Let Go" and am doing only those things relative to contact that she asks me to. When she needs a favor done, I do it, and I do it gladly.
The problem with most WAW's is that they do not respect a man who will allow her to treat him in any fashion--and still hang around saying, "No matter how nasty you treat me, I will be around for any domestic problem you can use me". In most cases, women do not see that as attractive. They see it more as being a doormat.
WAW's respond more positive to men they can't use. They are drawn to the LBH who pulls back, detaches, moves forward in GAL without her.
If she needs an electrician, plumber, car mechanic.....or any handyman work, give her the number and tell her you've heard they do good work. But this woman wanted to live apart from you and therefore, she needs to learn to be independent and not to "use" you for her errand boy.
Would you really be a best friend to a person who did anything to you? I doubt it. And, who wants a friend who you could treat any old way and they would still want to be your best friend? That doesn't usually jive human nature.
By always hopping when she says frog, it will not appear to "her" that you've let go. See what I mean?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
