hi bolt.....what would i have done differently? lots first off, i would have tried to remember the feelings i had when i was without him. how lost i felt and how badly i wanted the chance to start over instead, i once again, let life get in the way and i did not make our marriage my priority we have a very unconventional sitch.....he is in a rock band an always on the road i work in tv and have crazy long hours, so our time together is limited and we never make the most out of it most of the time we are passing by each other, just trying to make sure someone is home for our son, but not making sure we take time to reconnect after being apart i didn't pay attention when i realized our sitch was once again in trouble and just felt like it would get better on it's own we all know that doesn't happen i would have addressed issues, lovingly, as they arose i would have made more time for the marriage and most importantly let him know that i loved him, everyday it is a two way street and he also did not put in the work but he also was not the one asking for another shot and promising it could be better i would tell you to just pay attention to what is going on and how she is feeling i'm glad this is working for you hope i can find my way again i hope today is a great one for you
