FOBD...I agree, I'm going to try to not get her friend involved, that will probably just make my W mad.
W and I had what I thought was a good online chat last night after i skype'd with our kids. Just kept it light and we were joking around. She mentioned to me that she hates staying at other people's houses, so I told her I understand and that my previous offer of making whatever living arrangements she needs when she comes back still stands. After i said that I quickly said good night and logged off so she didn't have time to respond and didn't feel like she needed to. I'm hoping she saw this as me being accomodating and not pressuring her. She's also going to my parents' house for dinner tomorrow night. So, two good signs yesterday...I just gotta be careful not to get my hopes up too high.
BITS M: 35 W: 35 T14, M11 D9, S6 ILYBINILY: June 09 Unofficially Separated (long distance): 1/2/11 W came home: 3/17/11 EE: July 2012 Dropped the rope: Oct 2012 Piecing: April 2013 Not piecing: April 2014 Stuck.