HB, Sorry that I didnt mention my sons age, He is 20, was 18 at the time of the divorce, I had to ask him to go stay with his dad because I could not get him to do anything and he was becoming disrespectful. The day after he left to go to his dads he came back to get some of his stuff and hugged me and told me it was prb for the best that he needed this. We talked by phone and I saw him a few times after that, (they only live around 3 miles from me), then he changed his number and slowly stopped talking to me and grew angry. The stepmom and I had words and my son called me a liar when I tried to explain.....untelling what they are putting in his head. Anyway my ex didnt marry the ow he left me for, she was already married, but he met his now wife soon after. I dont think he takes anything out on her though, he follows her around like a puppy and treats her like Gold. As far as trying to forget his past life with me, I agree. He told me once he wanted to forget I exsisted. He is trying to build himself a new life and family. He refusses to speak to me about our son. HB, I dont know if my ex realizes he made a serious mistake or not? He dont act like he did I rarely see them, so i dont really know. Sorry to hijack YRs thread but no one would comment on mine. My heart goes out to you YR.......you are one tough chick!
