Also.. I've lived alone on and off for two years now. I don't mind it, but I'd rather not. I want to share my life with someone that wants to be with me. Someone that will be my friend. My H does not seem interested in that. How long do I wait??? LL, that's the million dollar question isn't it. Of course if we find out there is the OW in the picture again. I guess that question is answered for both of us. Rachael