UPDATE
Well, I'm going to take a leap of faith and ask my wife for her share in the monthly expenses. I figure that since she will keep bringing it up, I mind as well. Unless any of you think it might have some legal remifications.

M37, S5
M-7y; T-8y
Separated 060410
Wife/son moved 022611
Wife serves d-papers 032011
I filed child custody 042012; obtained custody 070312
Bifurcated 103112