I'm so sorry about what you're feeling right now. The D is a step along a path to your future that may or may not include H/XH. You get to choose whether or not he will be part of your life..........Time has a way of revealing truths to us and to our MCLers. I am 100% certain that your H/XH will have a different perspective 1, 2, and 3 years from now.
One year ago I went very dim with my XH after our D. I was wounded to the depths of my soul.........Since then his life hasn't been as rosy as I think he expected. He certainly hasn't been the picture of happiness that he should have been if I was really the cause of his unhappiness. A couple nights ago, after we were both spent the evening at his mother's celebrating her birthday, my XH hugged me and said "There's a place in heaven for you". One or two years can make a world of difference in MLC land.
We are all here for you to support you through this.
