My take is you won't do to your H what he did to you. If you find out what you suspect is true then it won't be an issue. I'm pretty much in the same boat. Third times a charm?? I told my H I would not go through this again with OW. It'salready happened twice. I'd LOVE to not be pesimistic, but if it crawls like a snake and looks like a snake, chances are..it is a snake. Rachael Hey LL.. Need a room mate???
