gypsi,

Just caught up with your post. You mention he moved to N. Arlington NJ, not far from me. After a year and you are still in so much pain. What steps have you taken to detach? As many have pointed out what have you done to take care of yourself?

The more I read the more I realize two things 1. You can't control the other person 2. You must take care of yourself. This D looks like it is going forward. So is mine. I will decide when to give up hope. I have set my benchmarks, you need to set yours.

Regardless of how broken hearted you fee remember the sun will come out tomorrow and this will not kill you, although you may think it does. Toninght I am in a lot of pain but tomorrow offers chance for me to heal a little more.

Every bursted bubble has a glory!
Each abysmal failure makes a point!
Every glowing path that goes astray,
Shows you how to find a better way.
So every time you stumble never grumble.
Next time you'll bumble even less!
For up from the ashes, up from the ashes, grow the roses of success!

For every big mistake you make be grateful!

That mistake you'll never make again!

Every shiny dream that fades and dies,
Generates the steam for two more tries!

For up from the ashes, up from the ashes, grow the roses of success!

Very funny but also very true


BITS