Having a hard time... II

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That was exactly my thought process. Like right now... the only topic we really ever discuss is things dealing with the divorce (splitting bills, assets etc) so it's SO hard to validate her during these conversations and not feel like I am conceding to the divorce. That has been a huge challenge for me but I feel like I have turned the corner. Once I accepted that the legal divorce is going to happen it was a lot easier.