Quote: I'm not sure but it sounds ALMOST like you are looking for an "out." Like having the decision made for you by finding out he's cheating again. What WOULD you do if you found out he was? Would that be a deciding factor for you? Rachael
Yes racheal that would be the deciding factor...no if and or buts about it...see you on my way out the door when you come to visit the kids and don't forget to put the check in the mail.
but of course h already knows this as I told him when he came home that there would be no third chance...no explanations given if it were to occur again with her or any other woman good bye would be all I'd have to say.
oh and I sincerely mean that.
am I looking for an out?
don't think I really need to find an out...if I were to decide that this is just too dificult and I can't get over what he did...well then that'd be my out.