A Lovestruck Romeo Singing the Streets in Serenade

[Denver_2010]

Right now keep playing it cool, the question remains how accessible do become for them?

Exactly 2Step! And also, at what point does a little pursuit help the sitch rather than hurt it?

Update/Journal

1/29/11

W did call after her gig was over. As expected, it was very late/early 2 a.m. or so. Nothing special to report other than I'm fairly confident that she was by herself and not with OM. Unless she is covering it up his presence really well, I feel that my imagination is starting to get the best of me.

W called this morning to let me know that she was going to pick SS up and go to lunch with her sister. We chatted a bit about her show tonight. The location is about 2 hours away and she told me that she was driving up there with the other lead singer of the group. The other lead singer is a male, and I know him pretty well. It is not the OM that I am concerned about. The guy she is car pooling with is older and is M.

This news made me feel good that this will be another night that she is NOT seeing OM. I beginning to really wonder what, if anything, remains of R bw W and OM. I just don't see when my W would have time to be spending with OM. I can account for almost all of her time and who she has been with over the past couple of weeks and the only time OM has been remotely close to my W was when he took SS ice skating last Friday night. I guess I still don't know though. That's the bottom line.

W and SIL just met me at coffee shop to pick up SS. She was again concerned about something with her car so she asked me to come out and look at it. W and SIL came into the coffee shop for a bit to order a coffee. I got to chat with them for a bit. Again, VERY pleasant with some joking around. W told me that she is feeling worn down from working so much. I feel badly that she is having to work so much. She is struggling financially since her move. In addition to her full time teaching job, she is doing singing gigs and/or rehearsals 4-6 times per week.

W will be calling me later to let me know when she will drop SS off so that he and I can go see a movie. Weird thing, I am enjoying all of this time with SS way more than I ever did before W left me. I took both of them for granted.

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Denver