second verse same as the first

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I get behind on reading for 1 day and look what I miss! LOL

I don't need to echo everyone's words on the flowers, so I won't. Just be careful.

From a woman's perspective, all of you thinking of sending flowers who are in the precarious situation of your W's starting to turn around right now.... unless it's the single rose idea given to Denver for Valentine's Day only.... I think the rest of you need to be careful of flowers. Unless you were the type to never (I mean never) send your W flowers and your situation is such that flowers won't push her away... don't send flowers. Think about what your W has said, her complaints, etc. Really listen to what she said and what she needs. Because for a lot of women, flowers are a no-thought gift sent by men try to get whatever they want the woman to do. Not in ALL cases but let's face it... in a separation, she knows you want her back so wouldn't flowers usually not only perusing but insulting. How about a gift certificate to a spa for a massage (NOT a home made one from a massage from you!) or something that shows you care about her and it's not about you at all. Because why do men usually send flowers? A holiday, to apologize, to convince a woman to go out with them. Not saying this to 2step directly... posting this because seeing several men here talk about flowers. Just a girl's opinion here, wanting to warn and protect my BITS friends!