I really think that the OW is a symptom not a cause.
Originally Posted By: Mila
When my H wanted to leave (6 months into the affair) he used the words "I'm dying in here" and "I feel trapped"....definitely a MLC thing...but wondering if there was no OW would he still feel that way?
Pretty sure our H's would have found another way to "escape" their trapped feelings if the OW hadn't happened along. They may have been "escaping" for years, but something happened to make their previous coping strategies ineffective.
