yes I did find sucha pair during his a...that was the first and (prior to these) last time I saw anything like it that wasn't related to me. Honestly right about now you could say I'm the queen of "act as if".
IMP,
yup, I certainly could live alone..I did live without h for over six months and to be honest other than the fact that I was free to leave when he got here...life was easier on the nights he didn't visit the kids.
as far as living alone alone? well alot of the time once the kids are in bed...I kinda feel like I'm here alone anyway...for one the house would be neater..there'd be less laundry...I could turn up the radio...do what I want..I think my friends would be more willing to come visit if h weren't here (they did come more during the sep than they do now).
Sage,
that incident was h deleteing emails that go to our original account (neither of us use it so the spam and what not piles up, I've since set it to not accept incomming mail) things pop up...he did not delve into any of the sites...and it hasn't happend since...I am the only one round here who clears the history...his history is always nothing but news, weather and football (and not even the cheerleader section)
let's just for a second believe that your theory is correct (wich I don't believe it is) I am home most every night while he falls asleep on the couch. Why go to the puter in the middle of the night? avoiding being intimate with the w? she doesn't mind a quickie and you know it?
