Hi SA - I was reading through the posts and GAG's comment about feeling "trapped" caught my eye. When my H wanted to leave (6 months into the affair) he used the words "I'm dying in here" and "I feel trapped"....definitely a MLC thing...but wondering if there was no OW would he still feel that way?
SA - you were equal partners...you each had your roles in the marriage that were equally important...you made the choices of how to contribute to the family together...don't let him make you feel that you deserve less just because you didn't make as much money as he did. If you would add up the hours that you each had to put in to do your work...I bet you anything that you would log in more hours as a mother and a household manager then your H at his job
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
