In the beginning I thought every conversation had to do with the M I kept getting shut down and I kept getting depressed. Insanity....repeat the same behavior and expect different results.
My goal was simple......when she talks to me, make her feel good, if she feels good after talking to me she is more incline to call if she feels depressed after talking to me she is more likely to not call.
I always felt that if I kept it light I would just be reinforcing her decision, the opposite has happened. I'm not saying it is working or she will get up tomorrow and want to come back but I do feel better abut myself and that counts for something.
