Grocery and Bond, Get this. She wanted to come back to sleep at home last night, and I let her know that I'd be in the main bed. She was ticked. But I stuck to my guns, even though she tried to mess with me. Here's our little text.
W: Do you care if i sleep there tonight?
Me: Sure. If you don't mind me in the bed. You are always welcome here.
W: Can i just sleep in S5 bed?
Me: Sure.
W: Nevermind, i'll be ok
Me: You can sleep anywhere you want. This is your home too. Are you ok? Do you want to talk?
W: It's ok. really. i just miss my kids but i'll be ok. i don't have it to deal with that kind of petty sh*t tonight. its good to know ur gonna b an a*s. ill figure out my situation. just tell the kids i love them.
Me: I'm here if you want to talk
W: I do not want to talk to you. i want to see my kids w/o having to deal with you wanting 2 b in my bed. lol.
Me: lol
W: It's really very selfish of u. u get them all the time. but whatever. im so not shocked.
Me: Come see them. The house is open.
W: I really dont have the stamina 2 deal with you tonight what time is D5 going to bed and where?
I find it so strange, that I kind of hoped she wouldn't come over, i was looking forward to some peace. But here she comes, and with drama to boot. We actually did sleep in the same bed. And today she mentions that maybe we would "have a chance" if I got my emotional sh*t together, and gave the example of me being cocky w/the bedroom thing. Of course she also said that she's only stayed w/me for 4 yrs b/c of the kids, and would only try to maybe workout w/me b/c of the kids. Now, I don't think I want that, do I? but maybe its at least a foot in the door.
Me-37 W-37 Married-14 SS17, D11, S5 Bomb: 12/13/10 WAW one foot out the door.
