She asked me who I was meeting. I told her that it was a friend who was having a difficult time right now. W asked what that meant, and I told her that it was a long story that I'd have to tell her another time. She asked me where I was meeting my friend and I told her.
Whoa, wait a minute! I thought you were going to stop with the lady friend. You admitted that having female friends that excluded your W had been a problem from the beginning of your M. Yet, here you are STILL doing the same behavior.
I can tell you from the way W questioned it, she isn't happy about it b/c she sees you in the same pattern as before.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
